The statistics all prove it otherwise
This is the part where you are meant to drop the stats.
does my personal experience.
Yeah, I can believe that.
If you aren't good looking its fucking over for you no matter what kind of job you have or how many showers you take in a day.
You really think that some face like a bashed crab bint is really thinking that she's owed a 10? It's all comparative, woman who is a 10, she can reasonably expect to attract 10s. If you're some uggo, don't complain that you can't get better.
you then got drunk in the same room multiple times until you eventually hooked up..
Typical teen behaviour. And that's part of it, different stages in your life, you do things according to that age (tl/dr: Act your age). Hanging out, down the street, when you are a teen, that's expected. Lurking on the corner, eying the girls, when you are 30. Different matter altogether.
Really, after 21, you shouldn't expect to get any, unless you are married. By that age, nearly everyone has paired off, reducing the field. If you are having problems, go to church. Try a nice one with nice middle class bints with parents eager to palm the daughter off on the nearest sperm donor, not the one's with single moms (I disagree with Neil Young on the Welfare Mothers), looking for a "male role model" to outsource the child battery.
I'm not gonna lie, it was pretty easy.
Best piece of advice I can offer, in my years of fornicating: You don't talk women into bed, you listen to them into bed. Ofc, your mileage might vary, due to height, hairline, waist line etc.