I have a friend who's kind of a "Chad" if we're going to borrow the terminology, he thinks I'm crazy because I don't like those apps. I have my reasons but a lot of it is just a vehicle for bots and OnlyFans models to hawk their "content."
I don't like social media much either, I prefer the odd corners of the internet occasionally but sadly those are being disappeared over time.
People really can be all or nothing on this of all subjects, it's like mentioning anything that isn't the acceptable party line makes you a Nazi incel or whatever. Political junkies in general are inconsistent dipshits at the very least. The same people who want to "defund the police" want their political opponents in prison and so on, but that's a topic for a different day. I'm just using an example to prove a point.
The political spergs definitely make dating more difficult to the point where people engage in what is called "wokefishing" in order to get pussy that they'd otherwise not get. And these kinds of clowns think that violence and murder are justified if "their side" does it, or they define it as "not murder or violence" in the same way that they define, for example, anti-white racism as "not racism."
By changing the definition of words and attempting to force people to play by your rules, you can control the narrative. And of course, like a child losing a game, you can always attempt to change the rules in your favor.