Maybe gay men outnumber lesbians because they don't deal with the trauma as good as women do
The difference in numbers between the L and G is negligible. PLus there is Lesbian Bed Death. Women are less sexual as they get older, while (as I've stated before) Boy Keep Swinging.
As for abuse, women are almost uniquely guilty of Munchausen by proxy crimes, which most of the time the child doesn't actually remember, even tho it will have a damaging effect on the kids psyche. This is covered up (there was a doc about 20 years ago, about a male Doctor, who thought that the problems a bunch of kids were suffering from, where due to MbP, he wanted to secretly video them, and faced major static from the female heavy management, he finally got permission for three women. Bang. ALL THREE were caught on camera harming their children, babies in fact. What are the odds of that?)
Luckily women are protected by Social Services, cases don't get covered due to "protecting the child". Look at the "Vanessa George" case. There were, I think, 4 other women who were convicted of SAing their children. One managed to get off with a slap on the wrist because she had like "low mood". Oh, and women can always plead "Muh patriarchy made me do it".
It really is a case of six of one, half a dozen (even if not counted due to political reasons) of the other.
Remember: Hand that rocks the cradle, rules the world. In the decades since single motherhood was accepted as a thing (Suzi Leather quoted as saying "You don't need a man to raise a child" was about a generation ago), where are we now? How did "There is no physical difference between men and women" feminism turn out?
People forget (feminists mostly on purpose) that Bobby Riggs actually beat Court in the first "Battle of the Sexes". Then, just at the same time Riggs owed money to bookies (the one's in nice Italian silk suits), he decided to play King. Funny... the superior female player (Court, she retired to be a mum with a husband, not a political dyke) was maced by a man whose hey day was literally over a generation before Court/King.
I just like to remind people of that, because I've met two people who have done time (banged up in a cell) for threats to kill. Both were female. One was sectioned for endangering the life of her baby (note, she didn't do time for it). Y'know. Anecdotal evidence n all that.