The comparison was meant to highlight the determinism of both cases.Why you disabled? I'm in handicapable in some way? Then whats wrong with you?
Here's what I have done:Prove it describing it using words that aren't just yourself loathing and having a pity party.
-got a degree
-became more outgoing
-joined clubs
-started dressing nicer
-started regularly exercising
-got a job and a career
There is a bit of a difference between choosy 20 years ago and now.Woman have always been chosey. That's half the fun. And what makes it special. It's because She Chose me and them other dudes.
Women now can just sign up on tinder and get fucked by chad 1 hour after.
After that they will never ever consider average or below men.
"Across four laboratory studies (total N = 2,679), target physical attractiveness and target race were the largest predictors of decisions in this hypothetical dating context, whereas user individual difference traits were poor predictors."No isn't everything but it's something and having a positive outlook and personally will get you a lot further than crying about it.