The comparison was meant to highlight the determinism of both cases.
Here's what I have done:
-got a degree
-became more outgoing
-joined clubs
-started dressing nicer
-started regularly exercising
-got a job and a career
There is a bit of a difference between choosy 20 years ago and now.
Women now can just sign up on tinder and get fucked by chad 1 hour after.
After that they will never ever consider average or below men.
"Across four laboratory studies (total
N = 2,679), target physical attractiveness and target race were the largest predictors of decisions in this hypothetical dating context, whereas user individual difference traits were poor predictors."