Do you want to have kids?

[Bear Hammer]

Personally, I wouldn’t. The idea of having a child with a severe disability like very low functioning autism is something I couldn't mentally or emotionally handle. I know it’s taboo to admit, but if my kid couldn't ever live independently, talk to me normally, have friends, get a job, or experience anything close to a normal life, I wouldn’t feel like I had the same experience of parenthood that most people do.


People always say "you’ll love them anyway" but I don’t think it’s fair to bring a life into this world if the potential outcome is that level of suffering or dependence. That's not the kind of parent I want to be, and I don't think everyone should have kids if they’re not willing to take on that risk.

Curious to what others think. Would you still want kids knowing there’s a chance you might never really connect with them in a typical way? Or is that a risk you think is worth it?

 

[mtil]

yes, but i would never want to be a parent which is why i deposit in the sperm bank 2-3 a week and have for years

 

[Onion Null 2]

yes, but i would never want to be a parent which is why i deposit in the sperm bank 2-3 a week and have for years

Think of all the bull dyke couples that have had kids thanks to you. Thank you for your service.

 

[Home]

Now see the weird thing is, in my experience, almost everyone I knew that had a bad childhood or were abused that have kids are EXTREMELY good to their kids. I was probably the last generation of kids where getting the fuck beaten out of you by your old man was considered normalcy, but I see a lot of my friends who are around 40 and they all have kids that are teenagers to early twenties who are great kids because their parents chose to raise them completely different than their parents did.

You make a fair point. I have a friend who’s mom had a shit childhood and my jaw genuinely dropped with how fucking sugary sweet she was and how amazing of a mom she was. And it’s not like she was completely normal, she was diagnosed with some mental illnesses yet was just a. Good mom.

Maybe it’s more so I feel me personally would do shit taking care of another living being. I can barely even get myself to eat, imagine getting a kid to.

 

[Onion Null 2]

You make a fair point. I have a friend who’s mom had a shit childhood and my jaw genuinely dropped with how fucking sugary sweet she was and how amazing of a mom she was. And it’s not like she was completely normal, she was diagnosed with some mental illnesses yet was just a. Good mom.

Maybe it’s more so I feel me personally would do shit taking care of another living being. I can barely even get myself to eat, imagine getting a kid to.

The moment the doctor puts that baby in your arms, it becomes a whole new ball game. You literally spend the next two decades putting someone else before you.

 

[MylarBalloon123]

No and not even in 2001 I wanted kids at all. I never changed my mind.

 

[IKOL]

No and not even in 2001 I wanted kids at all. I never changed my mind.

Faggot you fuck baloons, no sane woman ever would make a child with you, out of fear your degeneracy is hereditary.

 

[MylarBalloon123]

Faggot you fuck baloons, no sane woman ever would make a child with you, out of fear your degeneracy is hereditary.

and? I have no interest in kids. kids suck. I rather play Mylar balloons with a woman.

 

[IKOL]

and? I have no interest in kids. kids suck. I rather play Mylar balloons with a woman.

Don't forget to drink bleach.

 

[DecapitatedDINDU]

Personally, I wouldn’t. The idea of having a child with a severe disability like very low functioning autism is something I couldn't mentally or emotionally handle. I know it’s taboo to admit, but if my kid couldn't ever live independently, talk to me normally, have friends, get a job, or experience anything close to a normal life, I wouldn’t feel like I had the same experience of parenthood that most people do.


People always say "you’ll love them anyway" but I don’t think it’s fair to bring a life into this world if the potential outcome is that level of suffering or dependence. That's not the kind of parent I want to be, and I don't think everyone should have kids if they’re not willing to take on that risk.

Curious to what others think. Would you still want kids knowing there’s a chance you might never really connect with them in a typical way? Or is that a risk you think is worth it?

Your right I also never leave my house cause I think a jet plane might crash into me

 

[The Crimson Fucker]

You could get hit by a meteor sitting in home too.

 

[Onion Null 2]

You could get hit by a meteor sitting in home too.

You can die from drinking too much water.

 

[IKOL]

You can die from drinking too much water.

Unsurprisingly, you can, and you will if you gonna drink real too much of water.

 

[The Crimson Fucker]

You can die from drinking too much water.

Yeah it drowns your cells. A mother died from this trying to win an x box or something.

 

[Onion Null 2]

Yeah it drowns your cells. A mother died from this trying to win an x box or something.

Yeah she was trying to win a Wii for her kids. Some dumb radio promotion and she died on the way home. We knew where we were going so the Army focused like 90% of the survival training on the desert so I know a bunch of crazy stuff about like heat stroke and water intoxication. When you're that bad off you can't even fully quench your thirst because you'll be drinking too much water. Like you have to let your system have time to absorb the water.

 

[MoonMetropolis]

Absolutely not. The only thing that horrifies and disgusts me more than the thought of having kids is the thought of getting married. I will die before I will get married or have kids, and that is a promise that I fully intend to take with me to the grave.

 

[Onion Null 2]

Absolutely not. The only thing that horrifies and disgusts me more than the thought of having kids is the thought of getting married. I will die before I will get married or have kids, and that is a promise that I fully intend to take with me to the grave.

Tell me you're under 30 without telling me you're under 30

 

[MoonMetropolis]

Tell me you're under 30 without telling me you're under 30

I'm exactly 30. What difference does it make?

 

[Onion Null 2]

I'm exactly 30. What difference does it make?

The older you get, the more you'll regret.

That apartment's going to start feeling empty as FUCK when you hit 40.

 

[MoonMetropolis]

The older you get, the more you'll regret.

That apartment's going to start feeling empty as FUCK when you hit 40.

I have legitimately never even kissed anyone and I fully intend to keep it that way for the rest of my life. I also have zero friends, and I try my best to keep it that way as well. I literally base my life around avoiding other people as much as I possibly can.

 

[Onion Null 2]

I have legitimately never even kissed anyone

30 years old.

Kill yourself.